I have a few theories wrapped in my own experience and other close to me.
I think we force things and argue when we haven’t learned some lesson. This person shows you what you want. I don’t think you have issues that prevent love from Flushing when it’s true.
You naturally want to meet that person in the middle and shape life with a goal of doing life together. When that’s what you have nothing is impossible.
If you want to win then you aren’t on the same team. That’s not love. That attraction with self serving purpose.
You have to want their presence even if they are sick because that who you are to one another. Love is in the quiet mundane world when you close the door on the outside world.
We are trained to settle.
Too afraid to let yourself free fall and find the magic.
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